there's a guy i really like, we have 6 months of knowing each other. we met when i was going out to a japanese restaurant with a friend and some friends of her, so i met Jose but i wasnt very interested in him that way, but we talked the whole night then he asked for my number, then we all went to a nightclub and i only danced with him.
i started to like him a lot and it seemed he liked me too because he always want to help me with stuff, he is always very sweet with me. but he never texts me or call him, i am the one doing it. everytime i send him indirect signs that i like him, he stays quiet, says thanks and then changes the topic. like one time i told him 'the girl who haves your heart will be the luckiest girl of the world', then he is silence and then he thanks me and start talking about a singer called Lou Reed. other time i sent him a text mssg saying i dedicated him two songs, love songs (far away by nickelback, unravel by bjork), he took a bunch of time to answer and then came 3 text mssgs at the same time:
1. How's your dad?
2. thanks,haha i havent listened to far away, i'll look for it later
3.how's your piano lessons?
can someone tell me what does it mean when he changes the topic like that?
Why would a guy change topic when we say something flattering to them?
Hello,
There are two reasons that could formulate, First, he might not like you and for you not to be hurt he will just change the topic when you started to give signs. Or the second reason might, he likes you but he does not have the courage to say it you or let you feel that he likes you too... However, fi it happens that he doesn't like you, don't be hurt girl, life must go on. and there are lot of boys out there. You can still find another one
Why would a guy change topic when we say something flattering to them?
Sounds like he isn't really into, but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Sorry sweetie.
And try and be fun a flirty if you arn't even together. The two things you mentioned doing are maybe a bit too deep for a guy who you are only chatting with. If you have to initiate everything, I guess he just isn't feeling it.
