Wednesday 21 September 2011

My Girlfriend and I have been together for 1yr and 7months But im not happy. What should I do?

She picks up everything I do wrong but when it comes to talking bout the things she does wrong? She bails out straight away changing the topic or making up excuses, But i love her and i always listen to what she has to say ;(
My Girlfriend and I have been together for 1yr and 7months But im not happy. What should I do?
you must understand that your reliongionship must continunton when you get married hard stuff will get to you
My Girlfriend and I have been together for 1yr and 7months But im not happy. What should I do?
Talk to her.

Be open and honest about how you're feeling.

If she doesn't take what you say on board, then I think your relationship has come to an end, sorry to say :/
I think that you should break up with her. If she doesn't want to listen to you then i think that should just break up with her. She seem like she doesn't care about you in the way that you love her.
If being with this person does not make you happy, then leave. Most people who leave a relationship that is bad for them still have love and/or feelings toward the other person. That is what makes breaking up and moving on difficult. However, you have to really consider what is going to make you happiest in the long run being with someone who does not make you feel your best or having to deal with the hardship of breaking up but with the possibility of moving on to better times and maybe a person who is a better match. If you really do want to try and work things out, give it one last go and tell her how you really feel. If she doesn't come around and you both are unable to change the relationship for the better, then cut your losses and move on. By the sounds of it, it doesn't seem like she is too happy with present circumstances either. Good luck and take care :)
She may just be repeating the kind of relationships she had growing up. Communication should be a two-way street. Maybe the two of you need some relationship counseling.
The key word is %26quot;You're not happy%26quot; Is it really worth staying in a relationship where u don't have a say so? U have ur own mind too and if she can't take the time to listen to u what is the point in being in a relationship with her at all. It's a two way thing. There's other females in the world, don't settle.
if you are not happy in this relationship you only think you love her love means excepting her and she you for all the good things and the bad nobody is prefect if you cant see past her fault which we all have tell her and if she cant see past yours she needs to tell you it is alot of work to keep a great relationship going little own one you are not happy in hope this help
This will probably be difficult, but it might be for the best if you two break up. No one should really stay in a relationship if it is making them unhappy, but seeing as you love her, try talking to her and sort out the problems that are in your relationship (be firm so that she knows that the relationship is at stake). If this doesn't work then it would be for the best if you broke up.
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